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In our blog, we share resources and information that families in our community can use to cope with their loss or better understand their grief. We also write about ways we have been involved in the community. Check out our latest posts below.
Not ‘just an animal’
Posted on May 24, 2017 by Errol Castens | Leave a comment
Posted under Grief, Pets
As animal lovers, we often grieve for our pets much as we might grieve for human family members who have died. We know it seems silly to some people. After all, it was “just a dog.” (Or “just a cat,” “just a hamster,” etc.) But when it involves a living, feeling, loving creature, it isn’t […]
Continue ReadingRoberts named Instructor of the Year
Posted on May 9, 2017 by Errol Castens | Leave a comment
Posted under Events, People
Jeremy Roberts was honored May 9 as EDHE 101 Instructor of the Year by the University of Mississippi’s Center for Student Success and First-Year Experience. Roberts, Director of Event Services at Coleman Funeral Home in Oxford and Olive Branch, is also an adjunct instructor at Ole Miss, where he teaches the course titled “Academic Skills […]
Continue ReadingHow can I help?
Posted on May 8, 2017 by Errol Castens | Leave a comment
Posted under Community, Grief, People
In the immediate aftermath of a death, some bereaved people turn all their energies to “doing what needs to be done.” Others may be in such shock that they can only say, “I don’t know what to do.” In either case, there’s a world of help that close friends and family members can give. Here […]
Continue ReadingFuneral food: A blessing, within limits
Posted on May 1, 2017 by Errol Castens | 2 Comments
Posted under Community, Grief, People
It may seem heretical to say it here in the South, but funeral food – that reflexive response to tragic news – can have a downside. Especially in small towns and rural communities, taking sliced ham, deviled eggs (“stuffed” eggs in some locales), potato salad, green-bean casseroles, pimiento cheese sandwiches, pecan pie, and the like […]
Continue ReadingWell, then, what SHOULD I say?
Posted on April 26, 2017 by Errol Castens | Leave a comment
Posted under Community, Grief, People
Even with the best of intentions, it’s easy to say something that could be unhelpful – or even downright hurtful – to people who are grieving. Nancy Guthrie’s book, What Grieving People Wish You Knew about What Really Helps (and What Really Hurts), offers some safe ground. Her insights come from being that grieving person […]
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